Right timing..

kanina lang nabasa ko ang ang post niya. na aliw at nag kararoon ng interest dahil isa ito sa pinaka mahalagang bagay o pangyayari sa isang babae.. (well sa mga lalaki narin..) Pero palagay ko it’s really a girl thing itong post na ito.. all of us girls want to have a dream wedding.. kesehodang anong type of wedding pa yan.. simple, engrande, theme wedding, garden wedding,church wedding etc.. etc.. etc.. at kahit ano pa man, impossibleng wala tayong dream wedding na maisasabi. usually db nagpla2no o naiisip mo n yung gusto mo kasal o magpakasal kapag dumadaan na sa edad na nasa tweenties kana.. noong 19 pa lang ako ang akala ko by the age of 25 ay yun ang pinaka age limit ko para mag march na sa aisle.. pero hindi rin pala, sabi ko cguro 26, hindi parin.. 27? hindi parin.. ayayay.. hanggang sa naisip ko na wag na lang planohin kung kelan at anong edad ako mag papakasal..hehe… katwiran ko God’s will ang masusunod when i’m gonna get married. oh by the way, i’m 28. ayan  and i’m not ashamed to tell anong edad na ako. and it’s not that ‘big time’ for me kung wala pa ako asawa. but i admit, i worried about it. just a tiny whinny bit. just a bit.. talaga palang pag nasa ganitong edad ka na pala.. you really can’t help it but to think sometimes of these things. to settle down, have kids,  have a wonderful husband and a happy successful life.  hindi naman sa desperada ako ah..  i’m blessed dahil i do have ‘the one’ already. although we do talk about these things narin, but we have to consider a lot of things before jumping to marriage. ipon muna cguro kami.  i don’t know pero, ewan ko kung  ako lang  nakaramdam nito ah..naramdaman niyo ba yung parang may hinahabol ka na oras pero wala naman talaga? you know that strange feeling? cguro dahil in a few years time ay mawawala narin sa kalendaryo ang edad ko.. yung bang nalilipasan na ng panahon, kaya dapat ay mag pakasal na?

ang sabi nila the best age to get married is by the age of 25 nga. totoo ba yun? kayo what do you think the best age of getting married? well for some it work. talagang it just happens to their lives na they are already settled by that age. It’s God’s will ika nga..  ang sakin.. getting married o mag pakasal is a sacred thing e.. if you think your emotional,physical,spiritual and financially prepared then i guess it’s  about time to wear that white dream gown of yours.. nasa tao yan eh, kung ready ka na to face another chapter and  more challenging life. kung ako tatanongin.. aaminin ko na minsan umaabot sa ganun level na gusto ko na rin to settle down.. sino bang babae ang hindi db? pero in the end, napapangiti na lang at sinasabi ko na lang sa sarili ko na darating din ang right time to do that.