when you can’t make it. think again.
April 22, 2008 at 9: | In confussion, experiences, girl & boy thing, love, relationships |I’m not good when it comes to advising love matters. Well for some of my friends they consider me as a confidant when it comes to the matters of the heart.Maybe because I was able to listen to them, to comfort them in every thing that I can. But the thing is, I guess when those times hit you, there’s no proper solution on every thing that you do. Or every advise that you listen to, because your not emotionally stable, you try to sink all the advises and put it in your mind, but in the end, it will not help you either. Because it hurts you even more. Frustration comes along the way to be able to win them back or reconciled. And the worst is, that’s makes you even broken. Some may take weeks, months or even years before they decided to move on and have a life again. Now you might think that I writing this post because I’m on this ’stage’, no ironically I’m not. I can say that I’m happy, contented on that matter. It’s just that I know all of us or (even some of us) in some other way have gone through a lot of this. Or even presently on this ’stage’. It sucks I know. As if you hate or even curse the whole world when it happens. When your hurt and you put the blame on yourself, then think that you are the reason and feel the blame. When you cry, cry as you can as if you never cried at all. When you think you want to be alone, then do it. When you want to feel miserable, then just be miserable. Just do it. If you finally realize and when reality bites you, and have gone through all those bitterness and all those lonely crying nights. Then it’s time to throw it all and forget all that need to be forgotten. Start form the start, and I know in the end you will realize that it’s okay. Now you realize that when you think you can’t make it, think again.
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i’ve experienced being single for a looong time… enjoy it while it lasts… masaya sya at tipong sya ang dapat mong pagdaanan before taking the big plunge… masarap ang may asawa, ang may partner in life… pero ika nga nila, enjoy your life first, alone…
eniwei, i just tagged you dear…
Comment by antuken — April 24, 2008 #
tama ka dyan, kailangan maging kalmado lang tapos magiging okay na rin yan. this too shall pass, ika nga nila! hope ur okay!
Comment by kengkay — April 24, 2008 #
That’s right, it’s a matter of motivation. Having good friends really help.
Comment by Greg — April 25, 2008 #
naransan ko na rin yan, yun tipong manghihingi ka ng advice sa isang kaibigan. oo, sa ilang aspeto makakatulong talaga iyon. gayunpaman, sa huli ikaw pa rin ang masusunod.
sometimes, it gives me a second thought if i will give advices to my friends. baka kung ako kasi ang nasa lugar nila, hindi ko rin masunod lahat ng mga pinagsasasabi ko sa kanila.
Comment by kingdaddyrich — April 28, 2008 #
just recently one of my friend consulted us kung ano ang gagawin niya sa isang bagay na napakahirap tlga.. usapang puso din syempre.. im certain that we gave her pretty sound advices… we knew we discussed to her the pros and cons of what would happen… we really thought na ang susundin niya ay ang payo ng nakakarami… but then i was surprised to hear from her one night, that she chose to pick the decision we never thought she’d pick. kung sabagay, hwak mo ang utak at puso mo… dapat lang handa kang harapin kung anu man ang mangyayari.
Comment by Rhapsody — April 28, 2008 #
napadaan lang ulit!
Comment by kingdaddyrich ♥ — May 2, 2008 #